Sunday, March 15, 2009

CBJ vs BBBJ and rating systems on theeroticreview

I just found out today after perusing the private section for providers on that the reason I can't receive 9's or 10's in their rating system is because I don't provide certain services... like an uncovered blowjob, anal, and french kissing! I was flabberghasted. Not that I rely on this site much for my clients as it caters to the US.. but seriously??? So no matter how good my service is.. no matter what connection I make with a person as a provider I will always rate a 7 on a scale of 1-10 tops. Get real!!! I had no idea..
I've felt in the past few years a bit inadequate in that arena but the fact that some of my regular clients keep coming back to see me when I have even shared duos with other friends of mine who provide these services makes me believe they are not the only important issues when seeing an escort. To some obviously they are.. and if a girl doesn't offer one or all of these services they won't be seen. That's okay. I don't need to see everyone and certainly can't please everyone as much as I might like to. Anyway.. one of the girls on the private forum who shall remain anonymous wrote this and I loved the way she put it. I felt an immediate kindred spirit.. like what I offer cannot be listed on a menu and the conversation, compassion, passion and connection can't be put on a list. see below :)

"I RARELY have anyone around here raise an eyebrow about CBJ anymore... Unlike when I first started in this business years ago- if they have issue with it they are almost always curtious enough to keep THAT to themselves! ;)

It seems like MOST men on TER are big babies about this! The experience I offer people FAR transends a long list of acronyms!!! I play the role of "friend", "masseuse", "therapist" "cuddle buddy/confident"... AND LOVER...!!! (Sometimes I'm even asked relationship/marriage advice! Ha!)

I can damn near put both my feet up over the back of my head (ie I'm VERY limber and flexable ;) ,) I'm bisexual, I believe in open relationships, I can make conversation/joke etc ABOUT ALMOST ANY TOPIC... I'm NOT a clock watcher, I am open to cross-dressers, people with foot fetishes, tieing people's balls up with rope and LORD KNOWS what else...!!!

REALLY- most of the people that see me don't feel deprived... ;)

I have it listed in my profile that I kiss "but without tongue" BECAUSE in my personal life that's how I PREFER TO KISS! I like lightly sucking on people's lips, using my tongue occasionally to TRACE the inner side of their lower lip, maybe grazing them lightly with my teeth sometimes... savoring their lips like I am eating a juicey PEACH... YOU KNOW- kissing all slow and smoldering and sexy- NOT TRYING TO TOUCH THEIR TONSILS WITH MY OUT-STRECHED TOUNGUE...!

Some men use their tougue like a rigid thing to penetrate your mouth with.. a second penis of sorts. I will suck on their tongue and *tollerate* this, but it's not my personal style. I occasionally have people licking the WHOLE LOWER HALF OF MY FACE... or sticking their toungue FAR into my ear canal etc...

"Girl's like that!!!" I have been told by these men... Raise your hands, girls- so I can send these men your way! ;)


Anonymous said...

I haven't had the pleasure of your services, but I am sure you provide at least a 10+

Frank 'Wizard' LaLonde said...

Dang...I don't know what it's like in that 'line of business', but I didn't realize there were such things as 'ratings'...especially ones that are biased towards (or against) a particular service rendered. And (never being a client) I never really considered that people would be that 'fussy' about their choices (just a small-town old fashioned guy - lol). When I go looking for something (in my case, software, books, etc.), yes, I will read reviews and check ratings, but I still normally go with my gut instinct. Anyways... give them hell, Carrie. And good luck.

Johann1516 said...

If I am getting a lap dance I let the dancer take charge. The same thing with a hooker. I figure they know better then I do. I often wonder on sites like Craig's List and other. How many are rip offs and how many are cops. So I look at TER and other sites to see how many reviews a person has. I figure if enough people has gone to see someone. Then there is a good chance that person is not a cop. I care little about the actual reviews. What someone like. Someone else may not like. It is how I decided to visit one prostitute.