Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Everything to do with sex show in Toronto

Came back from my trip to Ottawa Wednesday afternoon exhausted but excited. Christine had put an ad in the sun and the phone started ringing at 430 am.. which of course I first thought was a fluke but once woken up I unfortunately didn't go back to sleep til 730 at which time the phone started again and didn't stop for 2 hrs so I slept fitfully...
I had just started on a new program for my fibro which a good friend in Ottawa turned me on to.. (watch the video clip - click the link at the top of the page) that builds glutathione - a major powerful antioxidant.. and as well had one of their vitamin packs with nanomolecular (immediately absorbable) vitamin mixes.. so I took that and when Christine came back in at 10 am I was coherent enough to hit the road for Toronto. NOTE: everyone at the convention working either had the flue or was getting it and I who usually pick up everything did not get sick!!! Another reason to be happy and excited...

Back to the show.. I was super excited as a friend of mine from LA was visiting to help M/C the miss nude pageant. I met up with him at Whiskey a go-go where I ran into Sheik from terb.. had no clue they were good friends til that night.. small world.. but the adult world is even smaller. Although I've corresponded with Sheik re: terb and on facebook we had never met. He's a sweetheart.
Thursday I went to pick up my banner for my booth that I had made through Albie at Northboundleather. I should have made it bigger in hindsight but hey we can't have anything outshining the size of my enormous bossom...
Did my hair again all curly. this takes quite a bit of time so I rarely do it.. and alot of hairspray which causes a tangled mess.. and went to the pre-party at Club Wicked. met up with my galpals in the industry and danced in the cage. It was so much fun!

Friday was spent recuperating from the party and getting ready for the show. Upon arriving Jodi that I had sent an email about the purepillz issue told me her boss agreed with me about them not belonging at the show and would no longer have them at future events. I was relieved. This past year for me has been alot about being more and more comfortable about sex being a healthy healing thing for me and others that I touch (ha pun intended). So many people came up to me at my booth asking about the industry and giving me kudos for putting it all out there! I had my hard-core porn playing and a variety of my magazine spreads open for them to view so I was 'out there' in all my glory. Yes it takes guts to be so exposed but the results of new fans, new friendships and helping others feel more empowered sexually were all worth it. Some leering individuals creeped me out.. one guy even had the gall to take a picture of my video playing and when I told him the actual video was only 10 bucks.. said he could just go home and download it for free! I was pissed.. but I'm not a hypocrite.. I too have downloaded music and porn for free. he didn't realize it was me standing behind it and also in it.. he never even looked up at me til I told him he had balls to say that to me..

In fact most people took a few looks at the porn and ignored me.. but they were just shy and embarassed to be caught looking at yes even at the 'sex show'.. Hey! I've been there myself.. being a die-hard born-again christian just prior to getting into the sex business.. so I've evolved alot... a hell of a lot!!! Then it was funny to see the looks on people's faces after making a comment on the video...looking at me and then realizing with astonishment they had just been watching me have sex. The laughs I got from it were priceless. Some asked me how to get into porn and some were too shy but I've been getting emails from some of the shy ones who just grabbed my card and contacted me afterwards. Now I'm thinking for next years show I should give a seminar all about my experiences in the industry both here in Canada and in LA.. as most people are extremely curious about it.
Saturday I was at my booth from noon til midnight and it was the busiest day. I got a body cast done at 7 pm.. and then headed back to my booth for a while.. I didn't get much of a chance to see the other booths or the shows going on on the main stage but I could hear them from where I was situated and it sounded like fun!
Sat night was a visit to Northbound Leather's party at the Docks. It was humungous and everyone was dressed in leather/latex or crossdressing. My only problem with that was it was way too fucking dark to see anything til you were right up close to anyone. This for me was like a halloween party and halloween is my favorite event. I love to dress up.. still haven't figured out where for this upcoming weekend but I'm going as wonder woman wherever I may be :)

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