Tuesday, June 2, 2009

married clients

It's amazing to me.. but I've had a couple conversations lately.. one male friend and one male client about married clients. They think it's wrong for married men to see escorts.

They are obviously single guys who've never been married. Here's the most common scenario for married clients that see 'service providers'.. a clinical term I've never enjoyed but we are indeed providing a service. It just sounds like I'm an ISP and I am to many people.. I mean if I got paid residuals everytime someone yanked himself to my photos or videos I'd be a millionaire.. so oops back to the topic at hand.

Married guy typical scenario. Guy gets married. They have kids. Wife becomes physically and emotionally disinterested in sex and exhausted..her body changes enormously and she's no longer happy with it and feels undesirable.. thinks sex will happen again when the baby stops breast-feeding and disturbing sleep... then thinks when baby goes to day-care/school.. and when it doesn't happen or happens twice a year.

I say.. what's a guy to do? He may have gotten complacent about his body and gained weight but he hasn't had the changes happen to him that she has and he still wants sex! I mean his sex drive was higher before the kids anyway.. now the height of it is obviously increased.

Here's where (tada!) the provider of sexual services comes in! It is immensely preferable to him having an affair.. which is the other alternative. Some go to massage parlours and will not engage in intercourse.. but let's be real.. masturbation isn't going to cut it.

So the suggestion was by this younger client that married guys who aren't getting laid should leave their wives. Hmm... rather simplistic viewpoint. Leave the wife and kids.. and the wife will be happier??? hell no. Wrath of a woman scorned. She will take him for 1/2 of everything and ask for child support and he ends up living in a friends basement. That's the typical scenario.. and he's punished for wanting sex? His alternative is to live a chaste life and/or use his hand. No fucking way.

1 comment:

TheBruce said...

This is exactly how married life turns out. The problem is that it is a big step for most guys to see an "SP" for the first time. Too bad you have moved to Ottawa, your understanding post would have made that step a lot easier if you still lived in TO.