I’ve been a student of psychology
pretty much my whole adult life so I saw this now as a fascinating human
experiment and have already used this example to help a few people in
conversation ‘see the other side’ of an issue and even help myself to
see how the stubborn belief that ‘my view is the only possible correct
view’ is a bad thing…
I usually consider myself to be open minded but I’m also a very strong opinionated woman.. and this can hurt you (me) as well as other people.
I took and NLP training course several years ago.. and long after I had graduated from my BA in psych and follow up courses along that line. I’ve attended Landmark education programs which i credit with a major life awareness and change inside me.. so this is right up my alley.
With the advent of social media bulling (in my case review sites) becoming more and more nasty with regards to bullying escorts on an open forum.. it hits me every now and then when I’m vulnerable.
These misogynistic people think it’s okay to slag someone online so when I”m given a positive review they follow up with attacking me with no regard for the fact that there’s a human being with real feelings on the other end of their attacks.
We hurt.. and sometimes we hurt alot. Thankfully it does go away eventually.. because someone who thinks I’m too old or too fat or ugly etc.. well that’s just the black & blue dress they see instead of the white & gold one :) Not their fault.. I just wish they’d keep their thoughts to themselves about it.. ha ha.
They might be someone who only views 18-19 skinny bodies as attractive.. and can’t imagine for the life of them why anyone would want a mature curvaceous woman.. but the one who thinks I’m the perfect woman for them can’t see the 18 yr old as attractive.. then of course there are those who see all woman as wonderful.. those are the amazing souls I wish we all were.. but alas the variety of life is good too!
I usually consider myself to be open minded but I’m also a very strong opinionated woman.. and this can hurt you (me) as well as other people.
I took and NLP training course several years ago.. and long after I had graduated from my BA in psych and follow up courses along that line. I’ve attended Landmark education programs which i credit with a major life awareness and change inside me.. so this is right up my alley.
With the advent of social media bulling (in my case review sites) becoming more and more nasty with regards to bullying escorts on an open forum.. it hits me every now and then when I’m vulnerable.
These misogynistic people think it’s okay to slag someone online so when I”m given a positive review they follow up with attacking me with no regard for the fact that there’s a human being with real feelings on the other end of their attacks.
We hurt.. and sometimes we hurt alot. Thankfully it does go away eventually.. because someone who thinks I’m too old or too fat or ugly etc.. well that’s just the black & blue dress they see instead of the white & gold one :) Not their fault.. I just wish they’d keep their thoughts to themselves about it.. ha ha.
They might be someone who only views 18-19 skinny bodies as attractive.. and can’t imagine for the life of them why anyone would want a mature curvaceous woman.. but the one who thinks I’m the perfect woman for them can’t see the 18 yr old as attractive.. then of course there are those who see all woman as wonderful.. those are the amazing souls I wish we all were.. but alas the variety of life is good too!
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